Thursday, October 13, 2011

Should I sell or wait?

Lately, I have been thinking, should I sell Reese's baby stuff, books, shoes and clothes away? He is already 5 and yet I am undecided. Should I have another child? I want to but...


  • financially we may not be able to support a second child the way we want to
  • working will almost be impossible for me unless I hire a maid again *shutters*
  • having to start all over again, bringing up another child from birth... mmm...
  • at least 6 years difference between Reese and 2nd child... mmm...
  • will hubby be able to handle the kids and will they make him go crazy? :)
mmm... 

* I already selected the books that I want to sell and even set up a blog just to sell the things and yet... 

I want a second child...
  • so that Reese has a companion and someone to share responsibilities with when it comes to family matters. If we are gone, he still has family. I don't want him to be lonely.
  • I love kids. 
mmm...


5 comments:

Linda said...

Mmm..... :) go with your heart....

LittleLamb said...

I would say YES..go for 2nd child. Pray along it. Its never our Time. Its God's perfect timing.

Mummy Moon said...

Why not discuss with your hub and the boy?? It is really good if he has a sibling.

Melinda said...

whatever both your decisions will be good.

My personal opinions will be at least 2 kids. Companion when both are young and also when they grown up.

Ann said...

Hope you have decided.

Personally, if your heart does not long for the 2nd, just stick to one.

Since Caylee came about, I have had less time with Christopher. And it shows! And this will never pass....I will always have 2 kids to work with and have to space out my time between them, hubby and myself.