Saturday, July 30, 2011

Emperor At Work


Doing his math and insisted on wearing his 'robe'

Mom, I am not teacher Reese, I am emperor now!

"I am the Emperor" declared Reese. This week, he is the emperor of China. We are all from China. He calls me Chinese woman. He is Chinese boy at times. He tells daddy you are part of the family and we all live in the Forbidden City. He wears a 'robe' everywhere in the house. It's one of those old batik dresses he found in my mom's place. He talks about everything China. He told me about Porcelain Tower of Nanjing (seriously, I don't even know what this is until I read about it!), the Great Wall of China, we read 'A story about Ping' that talks about the Yangtze river.

First time at Sushi King and really enjoyed his sushi

Last week he was into Japan. He asked me whether all Chinese people can eat wasabi! He talks about Torri gate, Tokyo Tower and of course sushi. He has been asking his daddy to try sushi. He claims that it is good for him! Hahaha...


Neuschwanstein Castle

Just last Sunday, we were at Popular bookstore and Reese and his dad were looking at some miniature building blocks. There were a few structures and one of them was a castle. Reese asked his daddy what is the name of the castle. The daddy tried to read the name which was in German and because it was a German name, he did not pronounce it right. Guess what? Reese stopped his dad from pronouncing it and CORRECTED his pronunciation of that word (Neuschwanstein castle)! Daddy was a little surprised. So he asked Reese whether he knows where the castle is and Reese promptly told him that it was from Germany! Daddy was really surprised. Hahahaha...

You can find this book at Popular Bookstore for RM15.95

Geo Walk ipad app

My dear son has been reading this book '1000 Words Around the World' and playing an iPad App call Geo Walk. Both the book and app gave him a wealth of information on countries around the world.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Using Google as a learning tool

Many parents boast how good their young kids are with electronic devices like operating the TV and CD players, opening certain websites like Youtube on the computer and play their favourite videos. Is this good? Well, it depends on how you see it. To me, I only teach what is really necessary. Till today, Reese doesn't know how to operate the remote controls for the TV and players. :) I do not want him to freely turn on the TV. Unfortunately, he found out how to use the air-con remote control and turns on the air-con as and when he feels like it!

The same goes with using the computer. I only teach him what I feel is necessary. Lately, I taught him how to do Google search. He loves to view images and videos of his favourite subjects. Now that he can read and spell, it is about time for him to learn to use Google as a learning tool. I always tried to sit next to him while he searches for images or videos. Don't want him to have access to undesirable materials.

Having an iPad is really great too. It is a wonderful learning tool. There are many free learning tools that explain, demonstrate, show beautiful pictures and videos and etc... It can be quite overwhelming at times but it's really good! Learning has never been this fun during my time.

Reading to me aka the story teller...


Reese reading a Little Miss book with a stuffy nose and cough. Poor boy.

Lately, he likes reading stories to me. Good for me, no need to read so much to him... hehehe...
He is into Little Miss series.

Expansion...

We went to IKEA to get additional shelves. Reese's homeschooling corner is expanding. Books are overflowing and no where to put. His little corner has expanded and has taken half of the living room! With the new bookshelves, they should be sufficient to hold his homeschooling books for the next two years or so! In a few months we will be ordering two years worth of homeschooling materials to take advantage of the lowest shipping rate. It has gone up to 19% if we purchase above USD900. We are saving money!! It's going to be around RM4k plus.... *faint* Anyone wants to contribute? :)


Early this year we bought these but they are no longer sufficient. So now, it has become his toy storage area

Our new shelves! We even put up a few pictures of Reese when he was a baby

Now our living room is divided into two

Thursday, July 21, 2011

At Play with Neighbourhood Kids

Yesterday evening, I took Reese to the playground to play. There were about 3 to 4 kids his age playing together. Reese immediately went and joined them. They were playing fishing using a yo-yo as a fishing rod. So I went near the kids to observe.

The first kid said "I going catch golden fish".
The second kid said " I want 'litter' fish".
The third kid said "I want a fish".

and so everyone took turns to fish. It's always golden fish, 'litter' fish and fish but when it comes to Reese's turn to fish, it's different.

Reese said " I want to catch a shark!"/ "I caught a shell fish" / "I caught a crab" / "I am catching a cuttle fish" / "I caught a Dory fish!" / "I caught a prawn.. oh..now shrimps..."

I can see a vast difference between Reese and the kids. Luckily Reese is the easy going type. He communicates with the kids mostly through actions. Half the time they don't understand what he says because of language barrier. Most of the neigbourhood kids speaks Mandarin or broken English. I just hope Reese doesn't pick up the 'lah' and Manglish.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

A Typical Day...

Mondays
We get to stay home till 4pm before going to my aunt's place for my classes. I love Mondays because there is no rush to get things done. We will have breakfast and then do our schooling. After that, we will go to the playground. After an hour, we head home and clean up. Reese will then draw or read on his own while I prepare lunch or sometimes, we will head out to the neighbourhood and have lunch.

Tuesdays to Thursdays
First thing in the morning he gets up he will take a book and sit quietly on the sofa to read or he goes to his drawing table and draws. Then he has his breakfast, brush his teeth and gets ready for school. In the car, he will read or sometimes he gets to play the Ipad.

After school, he will eat lunch with me and after that we go to my aunt's place (my teaching place). Reese takes a quick shower and then we will do Math and English worksheets. After that it is free time. He is allowed to do anything he wants. Usually he will draw or play. Then he takes a nap. After nap, more Ipad playing/drawing or sometimes he gets to play with neighbours' kids. After my classes end we go home.

Once home, he will draw, play with toys or read with me (Science/social studies or readers). After an hour or so, he gets ready for bed and reads his bible story book. Then quiet time for about half hour before he drifts off to la la land.

Fridays
Every Friday after school Reese gets to go to his maternal grandparents' home for a few hours to play while mummy works.

Saturdays & Sundays
He watches a little bit of TV in the morning and plays the Ipad, draws, plays with toys and reads. We usually go out for meals and some window shopping at malls.

Sushi and Peeing....

Random things I want to record down. My son has taken a liking to Sushi. I have someone to eat sushi with now! Yeah! My dear hubby doesn't like it. :)

Yesterday, I started to train Reese to pee standing (Yes, all these years... he pees sitting). I thought it's going to be a struggle but surprise surprise.... my son did not protest and just promptly change position and hold his birdie calmly and pee. We did have a little accident in the evening when his aiming was out and pee shot all over the toilet! Looks like my threats about not bringing him to Florence if he can't pee standing works! :)
My son is getting more matured lately. Behaves well at school, rarely gets complaints from teachers. He is also playing better with other kids. I am really happy about it.
At home, doing Math worksheets is no longer a struggle as he will willingly sit and do it with me. Not that he doesn't know, it's just that he is lazy to think! bah!


Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Great Readers Makes a Good Reader

I invest heavily in good books. There are so many great books out there and we will never be able to read them all. For young children learning to read, it is important to buy them the right books. Guided readers are really good. They have appropriate levels to guide the child through different stages of their reading. Readers are great to build confident readers. Never buy a book that is too difficult for a child to read. Go with readers that the child can read and let them enjoy the stories. Increase the difficulty level slowly. Not only do you want your child to be able to read but also comprehend what he reads. Always ask questions or have discussion with your child after he finishes his reading. This help to ensure he understands what he reads and also pick up new vacabulary.

Some of my personal favourite guided readers are from Random House. You can find some of these readers in our local bookstore. If I am not wrong, it is retailing at RM14.90. They have both fiction and non-fiction tittles but limitted. I bought almost all the Stage 4 titles and they are all great.

Usborne Young Reading series is also quite good. They have both fiction and non-fiction. It's only RM11.90 per book(hard cover). They have quite a large selection of titles and are easily available in MPH. Bought both Series two and three readers for Reese. I like the illustration and they do have some interesting non-fiction tittles. We even bought some classics like Around the World in 80 Days, Ulysses and etc.

Another one is I Can Read series. Has over 200 tittles. Mostly fiction.

Do you know our national library is a great place to get these books? Do check it out. You can check online whether they have a certain titles before going there to borrow. I think each person can borrow up to 3 books for 3 weeks. I haven't been there but I did visit their online portal. Quite friendly. Most titles I look for they seems to have it :)

Being Ahead of Reese is a must now...

Taken this morning, after his breakfast... he is on the sofa with a book!

Reese: Mummy, have you seen a man of war?
Reese: How about lovebirds?
Reese: There is even a beach man of war! They eat fish......
Reese: Do you know starboard is the right side of the ship... port is the left side...
Reese: Portholes .... are they the windows of a ship?

I am beginning to feel challenged by Reese! Where did he get those knowledge from? Then I found out that he has been reading the Wildlife fact files! My dear son has been absorbing a lot of knowledge simply by reading. He reads extensively at his school mini library and at home, he will pick up books in our little library to read. He is even reading his children encyclopedia! It is just so wonderful to see him reading for pleasure. Last month and this month alone I bought 10 books for Reese. Our little library is growing and I am getting a kick out of it.... hahaha...

Recent purchases. Reese seems to like non-fiction

By the way, I would like to tell you about this wonderful site that you can buy books from and they provide free shipping to Malaysia and many other countries! I can buy almost any books that are not available here and believe it or not, some books are even cheaper than local bookstores. Books take about 3 to 4 weeks to reach here but the free shipping really makes a big difference(Shipping usually costs between 30-35% of total purchases)!


I already have many mummies thanking me for introducing Book Depository! Happy shopping!

Sunday, July 03, 2011

Leaving School...

After much thinking and consideration, we will stop sending Reese to kindy by end of October.

Some might ask why stop schooling at age 5? Reason is very simple. He is not benefitting from it. Teachers were unable to persuade him to do academic work. Reese's academic level is above what school can provide him. Reese doesn't join most of the activities. Besides playing with the toys/materials, he draws and reads on his own. The new batch of students who came to his school were all 3 and 4 year olds. Most of them hardly knows ABCs.... there is even one that always bullies Reese!

Reese will be fully homeschooled and I will spend less time working (less income for the family!). I am very excited about it but at the same time a little worried about Reese being lonely.

I am going to try to enroll him for some enrichment programs so that he will have social interaction. The reality is he cannot take instructions well in a group environment. Performing arts school rejected him and Takwondo didn't work out either. I still have 2 more options to try, gymnastic and football!

I also arrange play dates for Reese and hopefully it will help. :) He now has a few friends that he goes skating with on alternate weeks which is great. Next week he will start Sunday school at his kindy and hopefully he will fit in well.

He is actually behaving better at school. Less complaints from teachers. A sign of maturity? Should I keep my appointment with the developmental pediatrician in August? Ah.... any suggestions? Saving a few hundred ringgit would be good! hehehe..


Thursday, June 30, 2011

School Field Trip and Skating...


Yesterday was the 1st International Mud Day. The school took the kids to Kiara Park to play in the 'mud' to celebrate it. Some of us mummies tagged along to help out. Before we left home to meet the kids at the park, it started to rain really heavily and Reese said in a very loud voice, "Oh mummy, I am SO DISAPPOINTED! Why must God sent rain???" He folded his hands (like Tinker Bell) and pouted his lips. So cute...hahaha...

Anyway, the rain slowed down and we went ahead. The kids had a lot of fun digging, splashing basically mucking around! I tried to catch a fish or two but failed and even got scared and shouted when some black creepy-crawly emerge from the sand...one of the teachers commented that I should not scared the kids and I told her I can't help it... I am a city girl! hahaha....

Busy digging sand

I am having fun!

The kids were really enjoying themselves

After wash up, they had snack

After the field trip, we went home to have lunch and then off we went to BSC for skating. Just two days ago, took Reese to buy a helmet. It's not cheap! RM139. Well, no choice as safety comes first eh? :) Reese spent about 2.5 hours on the roller ring. He didn't want to go home!

Reese and one of the supervisors. He is really nice with kids. Played with Reese a lot and taught him how to skate better

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Stories through drawings...



Reese loves telling stories through his drawing. As he draws, he tells us the stories. He doesn't draw for beauty but rather drawing is a way for him to express his thoughts. He is back to drawing 5 to 6 sheets a day.

Mount Vesuvius in Italy and the city of Pompeii. It shows the eruption of the volcano.

Another picture of Vesuvius eruption with the slow flowing lava (the lines looking like veins) coming down towards the city.

In space. A rocket just landed. A few astronauts complete with space suit. An American flag. Can you see the craters?

An airplane collided with the cumulonimbus cloud or was it a house in mid air. A man escape using a parachute!

Reese's garden (inspired by FarmVille). He said he grew pumpkins, grapes, artichokes, beans and some other things.

God's temple. Flaming touches everywhere. See the sign that reads GOD?

The battle of Jericho. Check out the soldiers (stick men) armed with spears and some other weapons.
Heaven guarded by two angels holding flaming touches

Instructions for us to fix the 3D Statue of Liberty we bought. He was frustrated with my excuse of not having the instructions to fix it. So he drew this and said "Here mummy, I have the instructions for you. So fix the Statue of Liberty for me!" Hehehe...

In Japan. This is a game according to Reese. 'Chop Chop Ninja'

Another game. Tower Madness. Aliens and weapons.

Mr. F's house going pass a few landmarks and got bombed. Can you tell which landmarks Reese drew?

See the Ipad Advertisement? Behind the billboard you can see many landmarks.

This is New York City. It's close to the sea. Can you see some people near the fountain?
A movie.
A twister in New York

Thursday, June 23, 2011

Reese can In-line skate!

Yesterday was a great day because Reese could skate! We went to BSC in Bangsar for lunch with 2 friends and their kids and then the kids went skating. This was Reese's second time skating. The first time was last week and he was struggling to stand and balance. Bump his butt a few times. At the end of that session, he was able to stand without help.

Yesterday, after a few falls he was able to skate unaided. I was so proud of him. He even asked me to go outside the ring and watch him skate! He didn't want my help. :)

Reese and his friend


Reese had home-made Mac and Cheese followed by free ice-cream with toppings at Stuff your Face (a very child friendly restaurant).

It was a fun outing and finally Reese can do a sport? Next up should be the bicycle! When my friends first told me that their kids taught themselves to stake after 2 times at the ring I was skeptical but seeing their kids skating like pro, I have to believe them. Reese also did it, so it is true! What I like about this place is that there are at least 2 guys to watch over the kids and they even help the kids to skate. So paying RM22(weekdays) to skate in the ring is not too bad. Don't need to pay for lessons. I heard skating lessons are quite expensive! There is one at Kiara Park conducted by Stakeline.

Protective gear is important. Reese was wearing pads for knees, elbows and palms but no helmet. He hit his head yesterday. I need to get him a helmet!! It can be quite rough in the ring, some of the kids couldn't stop in time and bump into each other constantly or falls and the impact was very strong.

Did I tell you that Reese went for a Taekwondo trial class? He just couldn't stand still and listen to instructions so can't take lessons. *sigh* Well, at least he can stake. Plan to take him staking every Wednesday and hopefully he will make some new friends too!

Skating on his own. Still wobbly but I think by next week he should stake better.

Monday, June 13, 2011

Gaming Addict at 4 years 8 months Old

My son is into gaming! He is hooked on a few games on the Ipad and even one Facebook game.
Day and night, my son thinks about his crops: plow, plant and harvest, earning coins, saving coins to buy decorations, building and decorating... given a choice, he can be with his Ipad the whole day!

I told hubby he may very well be a gaming addict and it's all our fault! His current favourite games are 'Smurfs', 'Bugs Village', 'Farm Ville', 'City Ville', 'Go Go Gadget', 'Tower Madness', 'Chop Chop Ninja'.

You people must be thinking what kind of parents we are....hehehhee..... Well, I do limit his play time. But on weekends, well, he gets to play many hours.

Reese did learn some basic concepts about buying and selling, the need to work to earn money and save up money for purchases... He learned about food. He knows many vegetable/flower/fruit names like brussels sprouts, artichokes, lavender, tulip, cranberries... He learned some basic strategies to defend and conquer and now comfortably uses terms like cannons, electrocute,bomb, shoot, blast, aliens...

So it's not so bad.... :) Hahahhaha....


Wednesday, June 08, 2011

Got lost but.....

Today we went to Popular bookstore to get some stationery. While browsing for some files, Reese decided to test his own bravery by walking away a short distance from me and hurried back to find me. I told him to stay close and was quite cautious making sure I knew where he went.

He was enjoying himself. After a couple of times of disappearing and appearing, I begin to relax and continue browsing for files and minutes later I realized that Reese did not appear and I thought he could be playing at the children's section. Another few minutes passed and I still did not see him, so I quickly went over to the kids area but couldn't find him. I started to panic... calling his name and the next thing I knew, I heard a kid crying and immediately knew it was Reese. I ran out of the children's corner and found Reese walking hand in hand with a security guard. He was crying and mumbling "I lost my mummy" repeatedly. Phew!

After Reese stopped crying I asked him what happened and he said:

"Mummy, I lost you and I went to a person who was not a bad man to help me find mummy!"

**At least he knew how to seek help! :)

Things He Said that Amazed Me....

Mummy: What happens when all the ice melt in the Arctic and Antarctic?
Reese: Oh.... it will be a world wide disaster! There will be floods everywhere just like in Noah's ark. People will die.

Reese: Never so feared and loved ..... (forgot part of his sentence but it was amazing...)

Reese: Ohhh.... I don't want to be near the river! It's so stinky and dirty.
Mummy: What happens when it's stinky and dirty?
Reese: It's pollution mummy. It's bad for us.

Reese: Mummy, do you know what is a greenhouse?
Mummy: Err... do you know?
Reese: Yes, it's a glass house. Plants can grow in it.
Mummy: Oh I see, do you know what is greenhouse gasses then?
Reese: Gasses that traps the heat and makes ice melt.

During the three days ban of Ipad:-
Reese: (Woke up) Mummy! my plants have wilted! I need to harvest the plants! Please help me harvest the plants otherwise they will wilt! Please... (He is into Smurf game where he builds and manages the Smurf's town)

Reese: Mummy, can you count snow?
Mummy: No. It's not countable.
Reese: Mummy but Popo said snowS!

Reading Pompeii buried alive:-
Mummy: What are these layers called? Do you remember we learnt it in Science?
Reese: (thinks hard) Sedimentary rocks!

Mummy: Reese, what is a hobo?
Reese: A person who has no home....

Reese: Mummy, I still don't want to go to heaven. I don't want to die yet. I don't want to grow old.

Mummy: What is another word for big?
Reese: Gigantic, huge, enormous!

It's amazing isn't it? His memory and vocabulary are incredible. He tends to correct our pronunciation and grammar too and he is not even 5 yet. Even a student (12 years old) of mine was amazed by him and commented, "Aunty Florence, for a 4+ year old child his vocabulary is impressive!".

Tuesday, June 07, 2011

Reading Progress at 4 years 8 months

It's the final week of the two weeks break. Glad to have a break from work. Reese is having fun playing at home minus the Ipad for a few days which is a good thing. He plays with his toys, reads, draws and watch some cartoons. He was ban from the Ipad for 3 days for misbehaving... hehehe....

Lately I realized that Reese will read anything that he picks up. Read as in really reading the words. Previously, he will only look at pictures and read when I asked him to. Reading is no longer a task but enjoyment for him. He reads very quickly and so fast that he will miss out words along the way or add in his own words! He is capable of reading chapter books but prefers books with lots of illustration. When we go out, he will read signs, prints and etc. and often asked the meanings of words, phases and sentences.

When we do out studies, Reese does the reading instead of me now. My role is to supervise and explain things to him. I am so pleased with his reading progress. With him reading willingly, he is learning more and more things from books. Whenever I pick him up from school, he is usually reading quietly at the reading corner. Reese loves science and he will tell us many things that he picked up from the 'I Wonder Why' series. I have about 5 of these books in the car for him to read and rotate the titles every now and then. We are reading 1 new story book a day for the past few days. He is currently obsessed with the book 'Pompeii Buried Alive' (Step into Reading series Step 4).

Tested his reading level a few weeks back and he is now reading at Grade 3 level.

Wednesday, June 01, 2011

Say what you want but I made the right choice!

I have been homeschooling Reese for over a year now and truely love it. It's so different from what I went through when I was his age. There may be alot of preparation work involved and definitely a very huge responsibility. I mean, my son's education is in my hands. There are still family members and friends who do not agree with our decision to homeschool Reese. To them, getting a proper education is only through school and some are skeptical about my ability to teach my own son, afraid that Reese may not socialize well and be weird when he grows up. :)

In the comfort of our home, doing some worksheets and admiring our little carrot top (part of an experiment)

Some people told me to slow down Reese's learning. Don't pressure him! He is still young. It makes me feel like a really bad mother! But honestly, they just do not understand that Reese is no ordinary child. He just 'gets it' the first/second time I teach him something. Just like that. No repetion is necessary. So how do I slow him down? I can't unless I do not teach him anything. :)

I don't do alot of work with Reese. Our typical day consist of 2-3 worksheets of a combination of the following - math, fun activities (searching for words in an alphabet box/ maze/connecting dots), English, analogies/critical thinking, science.
Usually takes about 30-45 minutes max and 4-5 times a week.

Then we read books to learn science, history, geography, poems, stories.
Usually 20 minutes and when something interest him, it can stretch up to an hour. We love sitting together with a bowl of fruits and read. Reese loves asking questions and I will try my level best to asnwer them and then we have discussion, singing/acting or just being silly. I always have my Macbook around so that I can show Reese more pictures or videos related to what we read. Can't do without the internet really! At times we do simple experiments which always excites Reese.

Our daily schooling is scattered throughout the day but all in all, it takes between 1 hour to 2 hours a day.

Reese checks on his carrot top everyday to see how much it has grown

At times I wonder, how will Reese fit in if he does go to a public school. He is going to be bored to death. At the rate he is learning, I think when he is 7, he would be doing Grade 3 (Standard 3-4) for all subjects. Is it fair to slow him down so that he can be 'normal' like others? It's not fair at all.

It says test! To Reese, it's just another worksheet. Well, Reese got a little reward (Banana Chocolate) for completing the test!

He learns at his own pace. I let him lead. At times we do nothing because he is not in the mood but somtimes we do math, science, history...etc all in one sitting!


Saturday, May 28, 2011

Training Reese

So, it's been a few weeks now that we had been teaching Reese to be more independent as recommended by the pediatrician. We have some success but with a lot of stress and scolding poor Reese.

Poor fella has no idea why suddenly he has to wear his own clothes and brush his own teeth. So the initial 2 weeks, parents and child got mad at each other, a lot of scolding and shouting involved and all the unnecessary stress!!! Ahhhh... we all hated it.

Well, it's over now. Sort of. Reese has accepted that he needs to brush his own teeth and wear his own clothes. He can now brush his own teeth but at the end of it, I still need to brush the inside of his teeth properly. It's fine at least he can put his own tooth paste, brush, gaggle and wash/wipe his own face. He can also rinse off the toothpaste from the brush and cup.

As for removing his own clothing it's harder. He can't take off his own t-shirts. I myself do it by crossing my hands and pull up the t-shirt from the front. Tried teaching Reese that and it's too difficult. So asked the school teacher and then realized that you can do it by bending down and pulling your t-shirt from the back. Well, it's slightly easier but he still needs help. :) Plus his clothes are fitting doesn't help much.

Wearing his own clothes is easier and he is getting better at them. I just need to adjust his pants after he wears it.

Oh.... the past two weeks, Reese was good at school. Why? hehehe... been using the reward system and also a little threat of 'No Ipad' if misbehave. So far so good but now we have two weeks break from school. :(

Been tired of shouting at Reese. So instead of scolding and shouting, I just warn him and let him do whatever he wants and also tell him the consequences of his actions and guess what? He threw less tantrum and will actually do the right thing. Will definitely work on this method.

We are also removing his formula milk from his diet. We are down to our last tin and Reese only takes his milk in a bottle (Yes, he still drinks from milk bottle) before his afternoon nap.

Next on the list to train would be pee standing. He still sits and pee. Next February we will take Reese with us to Tuscany and Paris and him being able to pee standing helps a lot.

Friday, May 27, 2011

Art at 4 Years 7 Months

Reese's drawings are more elaborate and now he likes drawing different objects. He is into Landmarks.

Penang Bridge

A city on hills

Noah's Ark

Statue of Liberty

City hit by a water spout or cumulonimbus cloud (Can't remember which one!)

Cinderella's carriage going to the ball.

Sydney Opera House

Kung Fu Panda - Prison where Tai Long was held and parts of the mountain collapsing

Eifel Tower and sky scrapers

Pirate ship hits a light house

Mapping Activities


Recently I started mapping activities as part of our schooling. I wasn't sure whether Reese will show any interest in it. When we read the bible and doing geography and history, there were many mapping activities which I omitted thinking it unnecessary and meaningless for a young child. Well, kinda wrong. :)



Reese liked it. So in one sitting, we mapped out Egypt (Ancient Egypt), Italy (Ancient Rome), Sweden, Denmark, Norway (Vikings), China (Ancient China), Russia (Little Eistein Cartoon), England (Medieval Period). We also labeled the 7 continents and the 5 oceans.

Honestly, I don't know the exact location of most of these places. So I am learning myself. Hahaha...

Ipad Addiction

Traveling in the car

Father and Son busy playing the same game

At my teaching place, while I teach he plays

Ever since we got the Ipads, they literary took away some of our quality time spent as a family. Initial weeks, Reese played with one, daddy with the other and me on my Macbook. All of us sitting in the sitting room busy away with our gadgets without a word for hours! It's so unhealthy isn't it?

Then Reese got addicted, day and night glued to the Ipad. No longer spend time building blocks or playing with his toy, reading or drawing. It's scary. Just recently he got banned for 3 days from using the Ipad because he didn't want to do other things when asked to but just glued himself to the Ipad.

Enough is enough. There must be a limit. So Reese is only allowed to play with the Ipad when we go out for meals, traveling in the car and when I am teaching at my teaching place (only after homeschooling work all done and good behaviour). On weekends, he will be allowed to play for an hour or two, maybe more... :)

Everything must have a balance. Very important. Even now I try not to use the Macbook or Ipad while Reese is around. Try to spend more quality time together. Need to get hubby to do the same.

Ever since implementing the new rules, Reese is back to his old self. Phew....

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Assessment Results is Out

Reese did the Griffiths Mental Development Assessment 2 weeks back and we now have the full report. We are a little disappointed over some of the scores and comments by the Pedi because they were inaccurate (rigid and miss out observation). Nevertheless, we now know his weaknesses and have started to work on it.

Reese's overall GQ (Global Score) was at 55th percentile. It's a very low score and mostly due to one area of testing that he got less than 1 percentile. Yup!

The six area that was tested on include:

Sub-scale A: Locomotor: Gross motor skills including the ability to balance and to co-ordinate and control movements.

He was tested on his ability to jump off steps, kangaroo jump over a number of foam blocks, catching and throwing a tennis ball, skipping rope, hopping and etc.

Scoring: Raw score: 60, percentile score: 24 = Age equivalent 50 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

Needs to improve on this.

Sub-scale B: Personal-Social: Proficiency in the activities of daily living, level of independence and interaction with other children.

Test involved the ability of the child to dress/undress independently, brushing and washing up on his own, putting on socks/shoes independently, his ability to share with others, social interaction.

Scoring: Raw score: 60, percentile score: <1 = Age equivalent 34.5 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

Reese scored the lowest in this area. We pampered him too much I guess, he needs help with dressing up including wearing his shorts/pants. He can't wear his own pants. Well, I guess it's my fault. I did not train him to do this. :) Every time after he goes to the toilet, he will come to me with his pants/shorts and expect me to wear it for him.

Doctor asked whether he can wear his own socks or fasten a shoe buckle and I said no because he never wears socks or have shoes with buckles! Again, it's more for our convenience here. Reese wears Croc shoes or shoes that he can easily slip into (he wears his own shoes).

In the doctor's report, her conclusion on this was he wasn't able to put on his socks and shoes unaided! (Is this a fair conclusion? I certainly don't think so or am I bias?)

Then the doctor asked Reese for his age, family name and date of birth. Reese was playful and claimed that he was only 1 year old. He was clearly playing with the doctor... and after some prompting on my side, he blurted out he was going to be 5 but the doctor was busy writing notes and didn't catch it! As for family name, he couldn't answer because we never taught him what FAMILY NAME is. We taught him his full name... hahaha... date of birth, well... again he knows...but didn't want to answer and was fooling around with the things on the doctor's table.

Doctor concluded in her report that he was unable to give his age, family name or date of birth. Fair enough... he did not answer her but these are things Reese knows. :(

Another contributing factor to such a low score according to the doctor was his unwillingness to share.

Well, Reese do share but he wants you to play his way. If you ask him to share his toys... he will. He just gets very upset when you disturb his creation or whatever he is playing. His outburst of tantrum is great and he will express his unhappiness verbally. He will say things like, "Owen! I am upset with you. Why did you take my thing! I am sooooo angry now. Give it back to me. Don't disturb me!" (shouts and stamp his foot and at times cry)

Sub-scale C: Language: Receptive and expressive language.

Scoring: Raw score: 76, percentile score: 71 = Age equivalent 58.5 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

Here Reese was given a big picture with things and people. He was asked to describe certain things, what he sees and etc. She observed his speech. Asked some questions about things, similarity and opposites.

All questions asked was from the assessment guide.

Reese was asked what he would do if he is going somewhere and he missed the BUS (He has never taken a bus). Reese said wait for it. (Doctor commented that this is not an acceptable answer)

Doctor said: A lion is fierce, lamb is? Reese answered "light". Reese was thinking of LAMP! (Answer was obviously wrong but hey.... if it's LAMP... it does give light right?)

What is the similarities between a window and a door? (She should have use "the same" instead of "similarities" ? How many 4.5 year old kid understand the word similarities?) Reese answered "The door is made of wood and the window is made of glass" :)

There were some other questions and Reese was not in the mood anymore and was either not answering or give inappropriate answers.

Sub-scale D: Eye and Hand Co-ordination: Fine motor skills, manual dexterity and visual monitoring skills.

Scoring: Raw score: 72, percentile score: 83 = Age equivalent 60 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

He was tested on drawing- drawing some predefined lines and shapes, asked to draw a house (Reese refuse to do so but instead drew a school under construction! - he did not score well according to doctor because he did not draw any additional features such as landscaping or skies!????), writing alphabets (He did not score on this either because he did not copy some of them according to the letters given above the line. He was playing... he was required to write A to Z following each alphabets but instead, he left 'A' blank and started to write A in the 'B' column and so on and laughing cheekily as he did this), folding paper, threading beads.

Sub-scale E: Performance: Visuospatial skills including speed of working and precision.

Scoring: Raw score: 60, percentile score: 45 = Age equivalent 54 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

He was tested on time based activities. Doctor concluded that he has problem with time based activities. This is true. He didn't want to follow instruction and timing him was impossible. So much coaxing to get him to do things within a time limit.

Sub-scale F: Practical Reasoning: ability to solve practical problems, understanding of basic mathematical concepts and understanding of moral issues.

Scoring: Raw score: 90, percentile score: 99 = Age equivalent 70.5 months (Time of testing 55 months 7 days)

He did very well in this subscale. There are certain things that the doctor missed out and he was not very co-operative as well. He was tired and moody. Didn't want to answer some questions or simply being his cheeky self and gave the wrong answers and laugh about it! :) He definitely could have done better.

So in conclusion, Reese's main problems involve gross motor, personal and social awareness. Remedial actions would be to allow Reese to do more things for himself and enhance his social skills with the help of a psychologist/therapist.

Now, honestly... this assessment is not entirely accurate (or maybe I am bias) but at least it does give us an idea why Reese is the way he is. He is simply not mature for his age! I wonder what the developmental pediatrician is going to say when we see her in August. Oh well, at least Reese doesn't display sighs of dyslexia or AD/HD.

Saturday, May 07, 2011

Griffiths Developmental Assessment

While waiting to see the developmental pediatrician, we did the Griffiths developmental assessment with our current pediatrician who happen to be a good friend with the developmental pediatrician. This assessment was suppose to take about 2 and half hour. It assesses the child's development in a few areas whether they are on par, delayed or advance based on their age.

Today hubby, myself and Reese went for the assessment. I was a little worried whether my son will be up to it! It was tough! Half way through, he threw a major tantrum that caused my hubby to lose it and eventually he walked out of the room! I was left to console the crying boy and it took me and the pediatrician a good half hour to calm Reese down and get him to co-operate!! Reese was not very co-operative and after the major tantrum, it got worst but eventually we got through it. It took us about 3 and half hours.

He was given little tasks to perform, sorting patterns, building blocks, counting, some analogies, writing, drawing, reasoning, hopping, jumping and etc. It's not easy to get Reese to do things that he is not willing. It took a lot of coaxing and clowning around.

I am a little skeptical of the assessment. It's very British. There are many things that may not be appropriate for us that are not British. Like certain objects and its function that the child is expected to be familiar with. I also find the assessment some what rigid. The assessment result depends heavily on the child's performance when it was conducted. Can you imagine if a child is not in the mood? They will definitely score poorly. I felt Reese could have done better in the verbal reasoning section but he was tired and totally not in the mood.

Anyhow, initial tabulation of the score shows that Reese's critical reasoning skills is equivalent to a 6+ year old child, 2 years ahead (I believe it could be more if he was more co-operative) and other areas are either on par or slightly ahead of his age. As I have suspected all along, his social emotional skill is only equivalent to a 2.5 years old. That is 2 years behind. That could explain a lot of his behaviour I think. So you can see he has the intelligence of a 6 year old but a behaviour of a 2.5 years old! That is Asynchronous development.

Asynchronous development refers to uneven intellectual, physical, and emotional development. In average children, intellectual, physical, and emotional development progresses at about the same rate. That is, the development is in "sync." An average four-year-old has the intellectual and physical abilities as well as the emotional maturity most other four-year-olds have. However, in gifted children, the development of those areas is out of "sync." They do not progress at the same rate.

Next week we will have the full report and in August we will be able to get more answers when we see the developmental pediatrician.

**After the assessment, we were all tired and didn't have the appetite to eat. My poor boy had a little stomach discomfort too.

Tuesday, May 03, 2011

1st class at Fusion Academy

Last Saturday was Reese's first class at the Fusion Academy. He was very excited. So much so he was twice more hyper than his usual self. He was running from one end of the drama room to the other end non stop! When we left him, we saw that he just run about doing his own thing. At one point, he ran up the stage and claimed to be Jesus and when they asked him to come down, he claimed that he is now in heaven!! When he was asked to hold hands with the others to sing... he preferred to sleep on the floor or just kept running from one end of the drama room to the other end. Both hubby and I didn't want to see anymore. We left shaking our heads.

He had fun and wanted to go again. He was singing the new song he learned throughout the day. We left for Penang that afternoon. That night, I got a call from one of the directors of Fusion and was told that they need to keep Reese on a trial basis as the teacher is having a difficult time controlling Reese and thus causing the other children to follow his actions. She said that he was very very intelligent and able to imagine certain things that are way beyond his age. He also enjoys his drawing session but was too hyper. She even asked me about his diet (he was extremely hyper)! Hai... I am really worried. Reese is a very individualistic person. I think it's going to be difficult for him to join activities that involved other children! Thank God his school teachers are patient enough to deal with him. I believe, if he goes to other Kindy, they would probably have rejected Reese.

We can't wait to see the developmental pediatrician(Appointment 3rd August). We really need guidance. It is really not easy to raise a gifted child.